Some things define us: gender, physique, beauty, intelligence, accent, tradition. We did not choose them.
More things define us: education, work, place of residence, physical abilities, skillset. We actively sought them.
All of this is, at some point, a trap. It locks us into a mode of perception that determines a type of behavior.
Be true in who you are and what you want, not in what you have and where you are.
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